The last breath

What the Spirit´s Book from Allan Kardec has to say about death?

156. Can the definitive separation of the soul and body take place before the complete
cessation of organic life?

“It sometimes happens that the soul has quitted the body before the last agony comes on, so that the latter is only the closing act of merely organic life. The dying man has no longer any conssciousness of himself, and nevertheless there still remains in him a faint breathing of vitality.

The body is a machine that is kept in movement by the heart. It continues to live as long as
tile heart causes the blood to circulate in the veins, and has no need of the soul to do that.”

986. Can a spirit who has progressed in his terrestrial existence be reincarnated in the same world?
“Yes; and if he have not been able to accomplish his mission, he may himself demand to
complete it in a new existence; but, in that case, it is no longer an expiation for him.”

141. Is there any truth in the opinion of those who suppose that the soul is exterior to the
body and environs it?
“The soul is not shut up in the body like a bird in a cage. It radiates in all directions, and
manifests itself outside the body as a light radiates from a glass globe, or as a sound is
propagated from a sonorous centre. In this sense the soul may be said to be exterior to the
body, but it is not therefore to be considered as enveloping the body. The soul has two
envelopes; the first, or innermost, of these, of a light and subtle nature, is what you call the
perispirit the other, gross, material, heavy, is the body. The soul is the centre of both these
envelopes, like the germ in the stone of the fruit, as we have already said.
154. Is the separation of the soul from the body a painful process?’
“No; the body often suffers more during life than at the moment of death, when the soul is
usually unconscious of what is occurring to the body. The sensations experienced at the moment of death are often a source of enjoyment for the spirit, who recognises them as putting an end to the term of his exile.”
In cases of natural death, where dissolution occurs as a consequence of the exhaustion of the bodily organs through age, man passes out of life without perceiving that he is doing so. It is like the flame of a lamp that goes out for want of aliment.
155. How is the separation of soul and body effected?
“The bonds which retained the soul being broken, it disengages itself from the body.”
– Is this separation effected instantaneously, and by means of an abrupt transition? Is there
any distinctly marked line of demarcation between life and death?
“No; the soul disengages itself gradually. It does not escape at once from the body, like a bird whose cage is suddenly opened. The two states touch and run into each other; and the spirit extricates himself, little by little, from his fleshly bonds, which are loosed, but not broken.”
During life, a spirit is held to the body by his semi-material envelope, or
perispirit. Death is the destruction of the body only. but not of this second envelope, which separates itself from the body when the play of organic life ceases in the latter. Observation shows us that the separation of the perispirit from the body is not suddenly completed at the moment of death. but is only effected gradually, and more or less slowly in different Individuals. In some cases it is effected so quickly that the perispirit is entirely separated from the body within a few hours of the death of the latter but. in other cases, and especially in the case of those whose life has been grossly material and sensual , this deliverance is much less rapid, and sometimes takes days. weeks, and even months, for its accomplishment. This delay does not imply the slightest
persistence of vitality in the body, nor any possibility of Its return to life, but is simply the result of a certain affinity between the body and the spirit which affinity is always more or less tenacious in proportion to the preponderance of materiality in the affections of the spirit during his earthly life. It is in fact, only rational to suppose that the more closely a spirit has identified himself with matter, the greater will be his difficulty in separating himself from his material body; while, on the contrary, intellectual and moral activity, and habitual elevation of thought, effect a commencement of this separation even during the life of the body, and therefore, when death occurs, the separation is almost instantaneous. The study of a great number of individuals after their death has shown that affinity which,
in some cases, continues to exist between the soul and the body is sometimes extremely painful for it causes the spirit to perceive all the horror of the decomposition of the latter. This experience is exceptional, and peculiar to certain kinds of life and to certain kinds of death. It sometimes occurs in the case of those who have committed suicide.
Spiritualist Philosophy – Allan Kardec – Year of Publication: 1857
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The violent death

Please, pray for the victims of insane terrorism.

Book: The Comforter     Year: 1939

Author: Emmanuel   Medium: Francisco Xavier

147 -Provides death unexpected changes and certain quick modifications, how will be desired?

-The Death does not bestow miraculous states to our consciousness.
Disincarnating is to change plan, as someone who were to move from one city to another, there in the world, without the fact you change the infirmities or virtues with the simple modification of the externals. It only observe the expansion of these aspects, comparing the earth plane with the sphere of action of the disembodied.

Imagine a man who changes his village to a modern metropolis.
How he will act in the event of not finding properly prepared in the face of the imperatives of his new life?

The comparison is poor, but it serves to clarify that death is not a leap in nature. The soul will continue in his evolutionary career without prodigious miracles.

The two planes, visible and invisible, intertwine in the world, and if the human being is unable to realize the plan of immaterial life is that his sensorium is only entitled to certain perceptions, without it being possible for him, for now, overcome the narrow window of the five senses.

146 – It is fatal the moment of death?

-With the exception of the suicide, all cases of disembodiment are determined in advance by the spiritual forces that guide the activity of man on earth.

Clarifying you about this exception, we must consider that if the man is a slave of the external conditions of his life in the orb, he is free in the inner world, for this reason, bringing in his map of proofs, the temptation to desert  the atoning and grinding life, (suicide), contracting a painful debt the one that ruinsby disbanding his own energies.

Education and intimate lighting, constitute the love of the temple of God in our souls. Who performs them in itself, deep in the inner freedom, can modify the determinism of the material conditions of their existence, reaching to the light and the good. Those who eliminate, however, their own energy, undermine the divine light that throbs in themselves. That is why complex of their painful debts.

And there are still slow and gradual suicide, caused by greed or by inertia, by abuse or by inconsideration, so dangerous to the life of the soul, as those seen, spectacularly, between the struggles of the world.

This is why so often hit the incarnate of the instructors, the continuing need for prayer and vigilance, so that the friends do not fail in temptations.

153 If the time of death there is not reached, can man perish under the dangers that threaten him?

-The external aspects of life, and since the incarnate Spirit proceed in accordance with the dictates of conscience rectilinear and well-meaning heart, without imponderation of precipitates and without the selfishness of ambitiousall and any defense of man lies in God.

152 -A violent death gives disembodied different sensations, in relation of the “natural death?”

-The Disembodiment by accidents, fulminant cases of detachment provide very painful sensations to the disembodied soul in view of the surprise situation before the supreme and irremediable events. Often, in such circumstances, the creature is not properly prepared and unforeseen situation brings him bitter and terrible emotions.

However, these sad surprises do not occur for the souls, in the case of painful and prolonged illness, in which the heart and reason meet, the lights of healthier meditation, watching the illusions and damage from excessive attachment to earth, being fair consider the usefulness and necessity of physical pain, in this particular, because only with his precious tender man can get rid of the burden of his harmful impressions of the world, to quietly penetrate the threshold of the Infinite life.

156 -The spirits after their disembodiment are satisfied by the possibility to communicate with us?

In general, very little is the number of human beings who are preparing for death emotions in the development of their common work on Earth and often the infirmity of the meditations are not enough for a state of perfect tranquility, in the early days from beyond the grave.  This is the reason why so salutaris are necessary to your study meetings and evangelization, which competes large number of our brothers, anxious for a word of the Earth, because the impressions that bring the world do not allow them the perception of high mentors , of the highest spiritual spheres.

157 -The disembodied spirits can hear and see us, when they want? How to proceed to make a similar desire?

That’s possible, not when they want, but when deserve it, because there are spirits guilty that only many years after the release of the world, can be allowed to hear the friendly and comforting word of his brothers or loved ones of the Earth, to orient themselves in the labyrinth of atoning sufferings. The attendance of a newly disembodied entity, the meetings of the Gospel, already means a blessing from God for their disillusioned heart, because this condition is accompanied of higher benefits to their inner life.

Regarding the process of their contact with you, we need to consider that beings from Beyond the Grave, in their generality, to communicate in the world environments, adapt to your way of being, conditioning his faculties to your fluidic condition on Earth; reason why those moments in the common form, have your sensory capacity, restricting their vibrations in order to accommodate, again, the terrestrial Environment.

260 -In the face of science and philosophy how to interpret the religion in the activities of life?

– Religion is the Divine feeling, which exteriorizations are always Love, in the most sublime expressions. While Science and Philosophy operate the work of experimentation and reasoning, Religion builds and illuminates Feelings.

The first are joined in Wisdom, the second embodies the love, the two divine wings on which the human soul will enter one day in the sacred porches of spirituality.

251 – Unbelief is a challenge?

– Atheism or absolute unbelief does not exist, except in the play on words of the desperate brains, the theories of the world, because at heart, all spirits identify with the idea of God and the survival of which they are innately . This superior idea will hover above all the negativities and leave victorious of all power decrees that are organized in the states of earthly, because it is the light of life and the most precious hope of souls.

253 – Virtue is granting of God, or is the acquisition of the creature?

– Pain, struggle and experience are a sacred opportunity given by God to his creatures, at all times; however, the result is always sublime and undying spirit of the the acquisition on the roads of life, embedded eternally to their values, conquered by the work in their own efforts.

250 – How is the collective Trial?

– In the collective probation there is the convocation of incarnated spirits, participants at the same bandwidth, with reference to the criminal and obscure past .

The mechanism of justice , the law of compensation, then works spontaneously, through the representatives of Christ, which summons the cronies in the debt of the  past for redemptions in common, reason why often you call “painful accident”. This circumstances brings together the most disparate creatures in the same accident, which causes them to death of the physical body or the various mutilations, in the context of their individual commitments.

246 – What is the difference between proof (Trial) and atonement?

-The Trial is the situation that teaches the rebellious and lazy disciple the road of work and spiritual edification. The atonement is the penalty imposed on the criminal who commits a crime.

247 – The law of proof (Trial) and atonement is inflexible?

– The courts of human justice, though imperfect, sometimes do not commute the sentences and not benefit the offenders with the “probation”?

The flexibility and hardness are not for the mercy of God, which, as the conduct of the Incarnate Spirit, may waive the law in favor of man, when its existence already demonstrate certain expressions of love that covers a multitude of sins.

245 – If it is fair to expect during our trials script on Earth by certain pains, we must  always cultivate the prayer?

The law of proofs is one of the largest universal institutions for the distribution of divine benefits. You should understand this, accepting all pain with feeling of Nobility.

Prayer can not ward off the unpleasantness and beneficial lessons of bitterness, constant circle of services that each spirit must provide in his earthly Task , but must be cultivated within, as the light that illuminates to the dark path, or kept in the heart as the indispensable food that is prepared in order to satisfy the own need, in the long and difficult journey, because the sincere prayer establishes the surveillance and is the biggest factor of moral resistance, in the center of the most rugged and rudest Trials.

241 Where the greatest help for our spiritual redemption?

– In the work of our redemption, whether individual or collective, the pain is always the friendly and indispensable element. And the redemption of a spirit incarnated on earth is the redemption of all debts, with the consequent acquisition of moral values that can be achieved in the planetary struggle, situation that increases the spiritual personalities to new and loftier horizons in  Infinite life.

What Dreams may come – Behind the human egos – Part II

With a few flowers in my garden, half a dozen pictures and some books, I live without envy. Lope de Vega

Photo: Miss Froggy

The affliction of envy is called despite

André: The person with spite, offended, do not conforms with their limits, wanting to be like the other, wishing to have the same things that the other has, is unable to be satisfied with what they.
Theodora: We have to analyze that before our reincarnation, the reincarnatory plan was outlined by ourselves, together with the lords of Karma.

André: Also we should think: Does the other person that I envy, is she happy? Is she okay with it, with the object that I envy? Does the object was conquered with honesty?

Roberto: The responsibility of those who have power, who is a millionaire, is very big. Much larger than the one who has nothing.
Because power is a very serious commitment. Because are many people who depend on his decision, taken by him.

  1. Does not a spirit, when expiating its faults in a new existence, undergo material suffering, and, that being the case, is it  correct to say that, after death, the soul experiences only moral sufferings?

“It is very true that, when the soul is reincarnated, it is made to suffer by the tribulations of corporeal life; but it is only the body that undergoes material suffering.

You often say, of one who is dead, that he is released from suffering; but this is not always true. As a spirit, he has no more physical sufferings; but, according to the faults he has coinmitted, he may have to bear moral sufferings still more severe, and, in a new existence, he may be still more unhappy. He who has made a selfish use of riches’ will have to beg his bread, and will be a prey to all the privations of poverty; the proud will undergo humiliations of every kind; he who has misused his authority, and treated his subordinates with disdain and harshness, will be forced to obey a master still harder than himself. All the tribulations of life are the expiation of faults committed in a preceding existence, when they are not the consequence of faults committed in the present one. When you have quitted your present life, you will understand this. The Spirit´s Book, Allan Kardec

Theodora: It’s like a politician or a dictator of a great nation. We can mention, for example, the currently Siria. Look at the souls of the people, so suffering. He Assad, a doctor, trained in England to save lives, killing, destroying a nation. Children are starving And when I see him on television interviews, I almos can´t  believe it. He has so soft face … However… As the popular saying goes: “Who sees face, do not see heart.” So we have to be careful not to judge by physical appearances, but by acts …

Thousands of people are being affected, and each dead soul, disembodied, is an enemy that he is forming in the astral. Thus, acquiring just not a heavy karma for himself but potentials obsessing spirits. Some mediums say that Hitler is a planetary prison, alone. Because if not, the souls that he annihilated, would follow him for many, many centuries…

These dictators, bad leaders, unscrupulous politicians, deserve much more our prayer, than their victims.
The victims are rescuing their karmas, but the leaders are accumulating quite bad karmas for themselves.
Let’s pray for the souls of these poor wretches. Let´s pray for victms, the souls harmed by them, do not will obsidian them in the future.

Also the religious leaders who preach a false doctrine, which is not that of the love and peace, plucking often the last penny of their believers, selling a place in heaven.
Let us having compassions of them, because they are miserable and will suffer very much  in the spiritual world and in their next reincarnations.

Even the directors of multinational companies, such as those exploiters of oil which pollute the sea, or large nuclear power concernig. They also, along with all the company’s employees are creating a collective karma. Many accidents, which killed many people together as aerial accident, or train, or ship, are karmas, which are being rescued by souls, which,during their past lives, some reincarnation, they acted together and made some bad things.
So, these souls are, by forces of karma, already programmed before their reincarnatation, to pay together, the debts acquired in their past lives.

We see many cases of people who give up of traveling, and at the last minute, either because they arrived late and missed the flight, or another reason. Then, the airplane fell or explodes, and they raise their hand to the sky, to give thanks.
But in the spiritual, they were not programmed to die at that moment. Therefore, spirituality program a way to make them not to enter the aircraft.

984.Are the troubles of our earthly life always the punishment of faults committed by us in our present lifetime?

“No; we have already told you that they are trials imposed on you by God, or chosen by you in the spirit-state, and before your reincarnation, for the expiation of faults committed by you in a former existence; for no infraction of the laws of God, and especially of the law of justice, ever remains unpunished, and if it be not expiated in the same life, it will certainly be so in another. This is why persons whom you regard as excellent are so often made to suffer; they are stricken in their present life for the faults of their past existences.” The Spirit´s Book, Allan Kardec

What Dreams may come – Behind the human egos – Part I

Question 908: How can we define the limit at which the passions cease to be good or bad?

“The passions are like a horse that is useful when under control, but dangerous when it obtains the mastery. A passion becomes pernicious the moment when you cease to govern it, and when it causes an injury to yourselves or to others.” The passions are levers that Increase man’s powers tenfold, and aid him in the accomplishment of the designs of Providence but if, instead of ruling them, he allows himself to be ruled by them, he falls into every sort of excess, and the same force which, held well in hand, would have been useful to him, falls upon and crushes him. All the passions have their source in a natural sentiment or a natural want. They are therefore not evil in themselves, since they constitute one of the providentially-appointed conditions of our existence. what is usually meant by “passion” is the exaggeration of a need or a Sentiment. But this exaggeration Is the excessive action of a motive-power, and not the power Itself; it is this excessive action which becomes an evil, and leads to evil consequences of every Kind. Every passion that brings man nearer to the nature of the animals takes him further from the spiritual nature. Every sentiment that raises man above the nature of the animals is evidence of the predominance of his spiritual nature over his animal nature and brings him nearer to perfection. Allan Kardec, The Spirit´s Book

Book: Religion of the Spirits. Author: Emmanuel Medium: Francisco Xavier

Performed by Professor André Sobreiro
Participation: Roberto and Theodora

Photo: Miss Froggy

Chapter 10: Examine the very affliction

Emmanuel: Examine the very affliction that thy concern not convert in devastating emotional storm.

André: The author Emmanuel suggests a movement called “self-evaluation” or self-analysis”. So if the person is distressed, anguished or suffering, she always seeks the blame on others. However, before judging others for our suffering, we must examine the very affliction.
Restlessness is a natural principle, it is necessary for us to grow spiritually. A natural principle is that compels us to Progress.

There is a philosopher who says, “the satisfied animal sleeps.” If the animal is fed and feels safe, he lay in the shade and sleep.  It means that, if we are satisfied, the tendency is to accommodate ourselves and not see the needs to move forward in the progress. Because we are pleased with our Situation. Then, restlessness is not the problem. The problem are the uncontrolled emotions that come with this concern. Such as neurosis, depression, fear, panic, aggression and several others.

Emmanuel: All afflictions are characterized by types and special names:

The affliction of selfishness is called egomania

André: The person finds himself the most beautiful, intelligent, intends that all people to serve him, not divide anything with anyone.

Theodora: Always waiting to take advantage for himself own. Not care about the feeling or suffering of others.

Book The Comforter, Emmanuel

The affliction of addiction is called delinquency

André: The addicted person, leaves a lot of important thing in favor of addiction. Until own food is changed to maintain the vice.

Roberto: Many people have passion for many things. Much Passion, may turn into vices, as for example for special object or person Then, the Person has no control anymore.

André: The affliction is that the delinquency. But we should not see delinquency as a crime, but to see the laws of God. Many people fail, for example, enjoying the opportunity to do something important for her life and others, because he is addict in a toxic .. As Kardec says: The passion is not bad. Bad is when you lose control of your actions and own reasoning.

The affliction of aggression is called Cholera

André: If the person has not the feeling planted within itself, she does not mug. The suggestion is: Work this feeling, learn to drain this energy to relieve yourself. If it is working properly, we do not are in danger of harming others. Whether verbally or physically. If the energy is stopped, stored, the chance of losing control is very big.

Theodora: There are many ways to work the energy: Psychologists, Yoga, Meditation. physical exercises, activities that are pleasing…

181 How to understand the feelings of cholera in the procedures of human life?
-The cholera does not solve evolutionary problems and means nothing more than a memory trace, of the beginnings of human life in its most vulgar expressions.
The serene energy builds up always, in the construction of feelings purifiers; but impulsive cholera, in its primitive movements, is a poisoned wine drunk whose soul always awakens with the heart touched bitter aftertaste. Book The Comforter, Emmanuel

André: If after remorse, I know correct my failure, the pain is less. The worst thing is if I repeat the same mistake other times

The affliction of fanaticism is called intolerance

Fanaticism term can be seen as fundamentalism. The fundamentalist person does not tolerate different ideas.

Roberto: The fanatical person dictates the rules, only his opinion is valid,  the truth.

Theodora: Many times using the aggression to make their idea be accepted.

The affliction getaway is called cowardice

André: The person does not have the courage to face the own problems.

Roberto: They are individuals who take refuge and enclose in religious temples, ashrams, leaving all the problems behind.

Theodora: Suicide is one way of escape. The problem is that life goes on. The person kills himself, thinking that with this act, the problems are over, but in reality they increase. They arrive in the spirit world, not understanding anything … Feeling hungry, feeling thirsty, cold, pain of the object that was the cause of suicide Many people go crazy in the spiritual world.
If they have had depression, so they are in a depressed state, which often last for years and even centuries. Until they accept help from spiritual mentors. The spiritual guides try but they get no conexion with those suffered souls. The Person who commited the suicide is never alone, is never helpless. But the own person does not allow the aid. She can notbecause it is a very low frequency. as an example, the movie Robin Williams
We have to pray a lot for those souls… They need a lot of prayer, much feeling of affection and love. No judgment.

Self-knowledge: The key to happiness

Simplicity, patience, compassion.
These three are your greatest treasures.
Simple in actions and thoughts, you return to the source of being.
Patient with both friends and enemies, you accord with the way things are.
Compassionate toward yourself, you reconcile all beings in the world.”
Lao-tse

Dear readers,
in the last few weeks, I worked intensively, trying to translate many texts. Some of them with very strange themes, even to me 😉

At the moment, I’ll take a break, because I have other activities that require my intervention.

Before that, I would like to give a tip about an excellent Brazilian film.

This film is about self-knowledge. Subtitules: English and Spanish.

I hope you enjoy.

A hug a all of you and see you soon!
Lots of light and peace and Axe!

Miss Froggy

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Photo:   Autumn leaves, Miss Froggy,

Herbal baths: Cleaning and Energizing for the Soul

The energizing baths are important, because they will awaken in you the desire to go to the day-to-day, desire to win things, and mainly will give you an ability to intuit good things. Marcos Felipe

 

Speaker: Marcos José Felipe. Linguist, translator, teacher and psychic. Also leader of Shamanism school and Umbanda Triade Brazil.

Photo: Miss Froggy

Different cultures, different peoples have always used the aroma and aromatherapy as a way to get rid of physical, mental and spiritual weariness. Nowadays it is very common that people always ask, wanting to know something about herbs baths, and what their effects.

First of all it is important to understand that herbs are a kind of energy. Each herbal bath will promote in your energy field a kind of reaction, depending on the type of reaction you want to have, you should use one or another herb.

The unloading baths, so-called “descarrego”, usually involves herbs that are not very fragrant, because they have the power to ward off energies that are not good (negative energy). So a few tips that I can give to you as to unload baths involve herbs like:

Arruda                   botanic: Ruta graveolens
Guiné, Ortega      botanic: Petiveria tetrandra
Tobacco
Coffee powder

These ingredients have the power to make an energetic cleaning. Also a bath with rock salt, which is not an herb, but is widely used in these discharge baths or energetic cleaning.

It is always important, after a unload bath, make an energizing bath. Usually I do a unload bath before bed, and an energizing shower in the morning.

Energizing Baths  that I highly recommend are made with:

Lemon grass        botanic: Cymbopogon nardus 
Bay Leaf                botanic: Laurus nobilis 

Clove                     botanic:  Eugenia caryophyllata 
Cinnamon            botanic: Cinnamomum zeylanicum

Those herbs are more fragrant and pleasant to smell. You can use one, two and even three of these herbs in a tea room, take its cleanliness bath and then take a bath with these herbs. These herbs, unlike the cleansing herbs may be thrown from the head down.5

Another type of bath you can do, which is usually a pacification bath when you are very anxious, is a bath that you can do:.

Chamomile & Petals of White Rose

The procedure is the same, and this should give you a lot of peace and tranquility.

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The Inner Journey – Know thyself

Start investing in your inner being. and do not think you going to stop there, because when you’re disembodied, being in the spiritual side of life, you will realize that the learning system is eternal. Exu Veludo

Spirit: Eshu Veludo          Medium: Robson Pinheiro

Youtube: https://youtu.be/wMiZU2AUwM0

Date of Publication: 19.03.2015

About the Medium: Robson Pinheiro is medium, writer and therapist 

Website: https://www.robsonpinheiro.com.br/

Good night people I‘m Velvet. Some call me Eshu, others call me Guardiam and has others that are very mad, they call me Menthor. However, I do not have any tendency to Menthor. I’m just a guardian.
My function is to work on earth, near of you, helping when help is possible, and today, since much is said in self-defense psychic and energetic, is appropriate us speak a little of what I know. I don´t know very much, however,  It is something that could help you guys enough.
When we talk in defense system, referring to the medicine was saying a few years ago regarding the immunological defense. But today, with the passing of time, medicine has remade this speech.
The defense system became system of balance, human equilibrium. You see, it’s very different from each other.

Defense gives the impression that the soldiers are very ready to attack.
Balance is an internal harmonization system, in which the parts contrary station virtually at the same level,  the system on which I will talk bout.

The balance system is not just the idea that you have perfection. No, far from it.  

The internal balance I refire is a coherent attitude to life consistent with what you guys do or say. Your attitude on a daily basis, in your behavior are consistent with his speech. So I will talk about this internal balance system.

Do not point any kind of external action, such as channeling, evoking spirit, have the best guardian at your side, if you do not have an internal balance system.
When I talk about balance, I mean for you to be well resolved with yourself.

We, on this side, so we light the condition of guardians, we study at least 40 years. Of these 40 years, it is a necessity that we submit ourselves to a therapy. In other words, we face our own fears, facing us our shadows, that we know to live with them and admit that many times we are not so good. We’re not as good as we disclose or as others believe. Ie live with us the way we are, with no pretense of holiness and without any pretense of superiority that I know more or of what I will win more than the other. that means I have to be in balance with my emotions, with my thought.

Now, I will transcend a little more, because talking to balance very difficult for anyone who is incarnated.Balance and imbalance is very difficult to establish.

However, if I talk to youthat is necessary to be consistent with our words, consistent with what we defend, consistent with what we preach, that attitude is consistent with what one speaks, then talk of consistency is easier for you to understand what internal balance means.

In other words, ie you need to stop wanting make  out of the body trips (astral journeys), but has the courage to take a journey into yourself. When you establishe this harmony, this inner acceptance as much as the knowledge of what goes on inside you, then yes we, the guardians can do something to your advantage. You guys can call us whatever guardians or Eshus. Be free to call us how are you feeling. It´s Alright. For us the words are of little importance.

What matters is the meaning behind the thing, then to maintain security, from
personal safety, since you hit the streets on a daily basis, being robbed or not, the spiritual security of having an attack of nonphysical spiritual or energy safety and any such type of security is up to you to be well with yourself, confronting and knowing yourself. I believe that the purpose of you
studying who are studying now, to do this diving, much more knowing than to defend

because once you know yourself, all systems of defense, self-defense, are immediately activated

I will illustrate: the human being has his defense natural system , which you know as aura. In a field with approximately 5 meters, from the physical center of the body, which the silver cord stretches with relative facility. Up to that point, from there it
also extends, but not with the same naturally, elasticity.

Inside this perimeter, then it establishes an individual  force field. However, from  the internal problems to external challenges, the difficulties of day by day, interpreted by the individual, may  break the electromagnetic structure of the substrate, that you guys call as aura. 

I will use this term because it is a term that you are used to. Now, if your aura is broken, exposes you to the risk of leaving your yard and the dog catch you, bite you. If the aura is broken, it means that there is a trauma behind it, or fear.
Fear exhale a smell of human beings. Who’s afraid, exudes smell, an appropriate odor. Who loves, exudes an appropriate odor. The one, who got energy security, security in himself, also exudes a type of  easily noticeable odor, with a vibrating frequency.

So, in some places in your worldoften they say that a person attracts thief. Not the thief is looking for the person, but the she attracts the thief. She attracts the dog to bite her… She attracts a lot of difficulties, because she is with a ruptured aura which makes exhale a  psycho physical elements  of this person, perfectly perceptible to others in certain situations.

See, we do not have the possibility to reverse this process, if you do not do an internal diving, to get to know your own balances and internal defense systems.

And I believe that this is the proposal to study on psychic self-defense. Especially is to study about yourself, making an inner journey without fear. Starting there, then you do not have to solve the problems but you will have to face them and be aware of how you are, and what your chances are…
Once you do this trip, whatever spiritual presence of a guardian or a mentor can do something to your advantage.

But if you want to transfer to another, either to the disembodied or for us to do, we have no absolutely no conditions to help those who do not help themselves.

This means that unethical behavior, done consciously, it is an impediment to the person to be helped.
This does not mean that we do not want, but we can not as spirits we can not do everything … Therefore there is the partnership on both sides. Join this.
The social evolving needs, Reincarnatory associates: Many people reincarnated in need of learning go through certain situations, with certain challenges and obstacles, so that they can bring out of inside of them values which have been squandered in past experiences. And against this, which is the higher law, a spirit can do nothing.
We can only, then, when that event occurs, we can delve deeply and understand what the message that life is bringing to each of us, at times of challenges.

This does not mean that we deserve. The issue here is not deserving, but the necessity of learning.we often need to go through the pain. It is not a question of merit or demerit, but the need so we can make an internal lapping and re-educate the way of seeing life.

For example, the crisis that everyone talks about all the time. Crisis is nothing more than the strength and the voice of the universe. The voice of life calling you to take a more dignified, honest and more streamlined approach under the circumstances. What you did not learn in good times, the crisis comes to teach. This can be personal, professional, emotional, the country’s crisis. It is a way that leads to life, to wake people up.
So often people ask: “Why the spirits did not  helped?  Why the guardians did not helped me? 
First we are not here to help you. We are also human beings. In my case, I work as a human being, with all human limitations.
And we are not slaves of the incarnated (people) to keep drawing you from the hole, every time that you guys voluntarily throw themselves.
We are neither slaves nor employees. So you guys have to change the concept immediately. Spirit is not employed by medium and not for anyone. If you fall? Your problem. If you want to get up, raise your hand, that we help. But you have to give a hand and make your effort.

We are not sympathetic in misfortune. We sympathize at the moment uplifting of the human being, to recover their moral values,
spiritual and human dignity.
If we were sympathetic in misfortune, we will fall into the pit with you and we would be lamenting the same way as you. This is solidarity of doom. Ie you fell. It was you who fell, I do not have to jump in the hole.
But I can put the ladder. However, you will have to climb each step, making your own effort. Me and the guardians will be there to give a hand to pull you but you have to make the effort.
Spirits do not come to eliminate proofs, even obstacles from human being. At least, not the spirits of my class and I may say that mine is no different from yours.
I am neither a mentor, but I am spirit that handles the dayto-day human situations. And look, I know of no one spirit, who throw in the hole and is weeping with his pupil.
Not. He will do his job, while the pupil stay there in the hole. The time that he wants to leave, he (the pupil) makes a prayer, asks for help and spiritual guide extends his hand, puts the resource, or shows the existing resource. But he, the pupil must have courage. Courage and a minimum of intelligence, to give step by step in order to get out of the situation.

We are partners and not substitutes for work. We do not replace the work you have to do.We do not replace the effort that is up to you. Also not have replaced your need for learning. No! We are partners!
We show you, “Look, turn your back, because there is a ladderAnd one may say, “But I do not want this ladder, I want a treadmill“I’m sorry, because life gave you this.”

To the other, we may say, “Turn your back, because by your side has a rope.He replies, “But I want a ladder I do not want a rope.“I’m sorry, for what you have only that.” But I hold the rope on the other side, so you will not fall.
But you have to tie the rope and make the effort. To see that the partnership is different from replacement. The spirit, especially the guardian
do not overwrite the effort of anyone. If it is not so, he is making the apology of laziness.
And here‘s side we have a lot to do, there are many people waiting to be helped.
To these we help yet must to have a conscience: Help is never what you expect. So you have to have a minimum of intuition. But intuition will only work if you work.
Intuition does not come to anyone who stays with crossed arms. The extra-physical energetic help of intuition, only works if you are hardworking, doing something.
If you are with crossed arms, asking the guardians, mentors and teachers with folded arms or kneeling in the corner, the intuition goes away and ascends the faith in other person, who is working.
And you remain in the same situation, until wake up. Unfortunately or fortunately, it was not me and have not been the guardians of the spirits who have created the system. (God law)

This system was created by the creator,  through the mind director of the universe.
We do not make the law. We make it be fulfilled. We are law enforcement officers, agents of justice, yet we do not create these situations. If you feel bad, talk to the creator.
It has always been like that and always will be. We have inserted in this context, as practitioners of justice, to make the law be fulfilled. But the law does not meet the benefit of “A” or “B”, to rid you of this problem or the other. It is not like this.

The law is fulfilled according to the harmony of the whole, and not the benefit of the parties. If one part wants to get benefit for his own, this is called selfishness. The law does not work that way.
So we can help you, since you are in the general context of the harmony of the cosmos.
A lot of people want to be helped to material matters, for professional or emotional issues. What we have to see is: Are you willing to benefit yourself, regardless of the general situation? If so, be careful what you ask for. It may be that some crazy being, on this side, may grant you. And then after three months, you will regret what you asked….
Therefore, even to ask for help, and spiritual energetic protectionhas to have a minimum of intelligence, to do a minimal evaluation of the situation.

Aquilo que o evangelho fala, é para nós um código de conduta, um codigo de psicoterapia, As the own medium sometimes speaks: The gospel teaches us to pray, to have faith. But it has to be, above all, intelligence to ask. Because maybe you can receive. But after you receive, you‘ll have to embitter with the result .

The spiritual help comes, she’s on our side. Genuine help, who has responsibility for the universal law of harmony of discipline as well There’s this help. It is present, close to all. But the effort is just yours.
Do an analysis if your attitudes are being ethical or unethical.
In an unethical, you may even take advantage. you may overlook the other, you can abuse the others. You can even win over the work of your neighbor.
But there is the law of return. And today, in the 21st century, I can
say to you: Even on this side (spiritual world) exists computer.

Not expected more for the next reincarnation. The answer comes in the same incarnation. And also, the dividends in interest and monetary correction (Karma), to whom acts of anti-ethical way.
Therefore, to be good is a question of intelligence. Being ethical is a matter of being intelligent.
To face the an extraphysical world, the invisible world, and having the inhabitants of the invisible world as partners, is intelligent.
We have no magic wands or a wand of Harry Potter, to make miracles a lot of people expect. But we have the ability to be at your side, to help you, if you take the first step, if you want a partner, if you set on you ownwithin your interior, at least one consistent attitude with your speech, coherence and attitude which is commensurate with what you preach with what you talk.
We do not expect perfection, but want to be a minimum of coherence. With this act, you already attracts the sublime forces of life, the positive energies and at the same time removes immediately, those discordant energies, which often can be distracting.
So, be aware of this, for you to understand a little more
about spiritual energy security, and even physics.
Be aware that the human being exhale light, but also exhale odors, aromas. In the human aura, everything is perceptive, even by the animals.

Start investing in your inner being. and do not think you going to stop there, because when you‘re disembodied, being in the spiritual side of life, you will realize that the learning system is eternal.

No one lights any position this side, if it is not through sweat and labor. No one reaches the podium without spilling sweat and without leaving pieces of himself by walking (Ego).

Merit” This is the discourse of religious, because no one has them. We have work investment. Those who do not invest in their own knowledge, those who do not open hand of religious dogmas, human misery, of wanting everything for themselves and nothing to the other (selfishness), who does not invest powerfully in his
spiritual growth, intellectual, professional, social and emotional

If you do not invest, you do not reache the podium of victory.
Because the crown of victory belong those who are studying, working, investing
without fear and boldly.
This is the word of Veludo (velvet), for those who like and for those who do not like.

Good night to you.

 

The value of Life – Part II

Today let’s talk about how important it is to fall in love into the life. Therefore, it seems of elementary importance that even understanding the seriousness of suicide, our action that is compatible to the gospel, forgiving 70×7 times and love the next as ourselves
André Trigueiro

Our biggest challenge at the height of desperation it is to breathe deeply and remember: Tomorrow is another day” André Trigueiro

7th Spiritualist Congress of Rio Grande do Sul – Theme: The Gospel in the world and in hearts

Lecturer: André Trigueiro, Journalist, editor in chief of Cities and Solutions, Expert in environment and author of several books

Website: www.mundosustentavel.com.br

Youtube: https ://youtu.be/czhbABpmekE

Published: 06/11/2013

Photo: Miss Froggy – Germany 2015

The value of Life – Part II

Understand the pain means: It hurts, but I’m realizing that this is part of my evolutionary project.
It is deriving from the imperfect way in which I lay myself on the board of the physical existence. Now suffering is the deterioration from this state, in many cases, for us to be impatient and intolerant of certain processes that are part of life.

Depressive state is not depressionDepression is a mood disorder that determines the interference in the biochemistry of the brain.

The brain synapses are compromised. the passage of information from neuron to neuron happens slowly. This makes the depressive, are often unable not even get out of bed to take coffee, open the window, even to answer the phone.

It is an existence as “dead aliveand he suffers when someone comes to him and says: You have health, you have a job, you have a lovely family and you are lying down, sleeping… Stand up!

Anyone who has experiences to live with a person who suffers from depression, she knows how difficult this coexistence, and know how important is to provide support, help and solidarity for those who are going through this painThe worst thing you can say for a depressing is: “Get up!” There are other methods to deal with it.

What is the exit to confront the depressionI will quote the divaldiano method“:

Three basic providences:
1. Enjoy the privilege of being embodied in the 21st century and make use of what any other last incarnation has been at our disposal, in our hands: Antidepressant medication recommended by a doctorhaving the patience to see if the formula and dosage are compatible to us, waiting for the outcome.
What the Greeks in antiquity called melancholy, in many cases, are depression. Until recently there was not antidepressants. Save the world of regeneration, which is coming up with important cocktails of antidepressants to interfere with the biochemistry of the brain.

Solve the Problem? No, but he helps. Do not open hand of this first feature. He is the first therapeutic step. 

2. The indispensable and urgent support from the therapist, for him to helps the depressive person to better understand who he is, what bothers or weakens him, where this lack of courage or lack of disposition come from, the possible causes of this present life, who are causing this lethargy, this difficulty in handling of bodily existence. It is not possible to open hand of the therapy.

3. The last, and also very important: The fluid therapy. Lamartine Palhano Junior, espirita researcher says: In approximately 70% of cases, depression is associated with the action of obsessors.

By tuning law ((frequency)), it is appropriate to seek recourse from the fluid therapy, the magnetic pass (Please see: Franz Anton Mesmer), in order to get during this difficult period, having at least one rear protection of the action of evil spirits.

Still talking about depression, I’ll to repeat what said Joana de Angelis (spiritual Menthor of the Medium Divaldo Franco): The depression has its origin in the spirit that reincarnates with high dose of guilt when walking in the evolution processon negative factors that point out his march, and not resolve to be free definitively
This vulnerability, in large part of the cases, is guilty.

The depressive need to mobilize forces to, at least have hope. Patience, that that phase is going to end.

The psychiatrist Jaider Rodrigues de Paula, which is spiritualist, tells us: “The matrix of depression are insipid in the perispirit. The physical body reflects the spiritual body. If the reincarnating brings, carved into the psycho-soma, the matrix of depression, will influence the genetic selection of the elements that could, is a possibility, enabling the physical life; if the person concerned wishes.”
LOOK AT THE FREE WILL. Diseases are effects, not causes.

What does it say spiritism about suicide:

There’s no other spiritualistic philosophy, religion, mystical current that offers us so much information and subsidies to understand the reality of suicide in the spirit world.

It is important to know that, under any circumstances, the suicidal act will represent relief, either improvement of emotional conditions for the one who exterminates him or herself. However,  the spiritual destiny of suicide is not equal for everybody. One has to recognize gradations of postmortem experiences of the suicide of the body.

Example: The one, afflicted with schizophrenia, deeply disturbed by not able to clearly distinguish what is true from what is hallucination. And eventually the subject of hidden forces that encourage the abortion of this existential project. And when he kills himself, he can not and should not suffer the same fate of that other, which acts coldly, with no psychopathology disturbe, in which gives up life without purpose, a cold and calculating act.

This one which enjoyed full physical and mental conditions, to follow throughout the course of fleshly existence, when abandon existence, he will have to understand, pedagogically, through the pain, the mistake of this act.

Another important question. We lose time, in my view, when we ask, like that: “Who is the suicidal?and some will say, “it’s a coward who abandoned the existence” while others will say: It is a brave man, because we have a survival instinct. It is not easy precipitate own death

Let me say that this is an irrelevant discussion. What matters is to recognize that all suicidal, when they decide to make this imprudent act, they want solution. They want to solve a problem that causes a profound existential anguish.

This is my vision, and I may say that bothers me a lot to see Spiritist people pointing their finger, saying angry, calling the suicide as a criminal.

We are reincarnationists. Which of us can say that in a past life not commit the same acts, to solve problems? And if we left the hole we found ourselves because of this action, it is because, instead of pointing the finger, someone gave us the hand.

Therefore, it seems of elementary importance that, even understanding the seriousness of suicide, our action that is compatible to the gospel, forgiving 70×7 times and love the next as ourselves. This is the gesture that is expected in the direction of suicide.

Let me say, that bothers me also in the final prayer in a Espiritism institution, after a lecture or any other activity of the house, in which we remember the orphanage, asylum, the hospital, the abandoned dogs and kittens … We remember all those in need, poor, miserable, insane But do not remember the suicide. 

It is the taboo that I said in the beginning. The Tabu is present in some Spiritist houses, prejudice as well.
The suicide people are our brother in humanity. They went wrong and need us to move on.

We need this ethical positioning, do not condemn on principle, but, pardon on principle and extending the hand.

I recommend a book because it brings numerous messages regarding the suicide problem, psychographic by Francisco Xavier, which is called: ” Suicide and its consequence”. I will report a part of it, where Brother X interview a suicidal woman of 32, who passed away in Rio de Janeiro, ingesting formicidae. The outcome of the interview is presented in topic:

  •  She did not have any religious faith.
  • She remained completely lucid and for a long time when death occurred.
  • She suffered with terrible suffering, when found disembodied. 
  • She could hear the cries of her husband and young son, beseeching for help
  • When the hearse collects her body, she tries to stay at home but she could not.
  • She was in a morgue compartment, crying maddening
  • To find herself naked on the autopsy table, immediately trembled with shame
  • After two men open his belly, without any ceremony, endured showers of cold water on the exposed viscera.
  • Prayed, the way the desperate freaks, without any notion of God.
  • Although many friends and family, who were disembodied, tried to help her, was not possible. Because of her suicidal condition, she was still in its fullness of the vital physical forces. She was still materialized, under the body of flesh.
  • Attended the own funeral, with horror imaginable.
  • Being mentally blind of pain, she could not see the spiritual benefactors of the cemetery. This touched me the first time I read it, because even when we commit the imprudence of killing ourself, our guides and our mentors are on our side. We are never alone.
  • Does not know how long she was in the tomb cell.
  • When the magnetic rope broke (silver cord that unites the perispirit of the physical body). When the magnetic rope broke away, she were able to stand up in the grave.
  • After a long time of prayer and remorse, she obtained assistance from missionaries spirits, and was admitted to a treatment field in the spiritual world.

 

The reason she decided to kill herself was: Jealousy. Her husband, who were  sympathized with another woman.

Well. Humberto de Campos (author) asked her if that attitude had brought some benefit. She answered the following: Only complications


After 6 years of absence, hurt by terrible longing, she was allowed and had permission to visit the residence, which still thought and thought, be her home, she got a huge surprise. For did not help her own punishment: “My husband, still young, needed company and chosen to his second wife, the abominated rival. He and my son, they were on the care of the woman who raised me hate and anger.

In other passages in this book say that, people who commit suicide at the peak of hopelessnesssometimes the solution of the problem occurs hours after the fatal act, the next day …

It’s amazing to divine providence. It is time to overcome.

Our biggest challenge at the height of desperation it is to breathe deeply and remember: Tomorrow is another day

We have to allow time for the issue to take its course.
It sounds simple, but it is not.
And there are those who read the gospel at the height of despair, hoping a direct message, wanting an answer to his problem. Then he is disappointed, when finally become from the mediumship in the center, “came a message for you.” The light spirit, indirectly sends the message of strength and energy. But for him is not enough. He wants the spirit write, directly, about his problem. 

He crumples the paper and throw in the trash. Oh God, I prayed so much for an answer. And that’s what sent me a phrase that appears in any literary work of Chico, Divaldo, Raul?”

Any little problem, consults the spirits, not walking by own efforts 

Spirits of light, by definition, tends not to mix the smallness that beset us on a daily basis.

Evolution is merit. Evolution is a personal and not transferable process.

If the spiritual guide decides to write: Alberto, tomorrow don´t go to work. Trust me, and look for another job. In relation to your wife, you have to impose youself…”  There is no merit, there is no evolution.

The stone was placed and there is no reasons to celebrate .. An existence passes quickly, the solution expected for that project didn´t come. We should ask at this moment: Is it God who punishes?

Why punishment is not applicable here? I will give an example: It is night at home. Suddenly gives a problem in the electrical network and there is no light.  The father lights a candle. A small child decides to play with the candle and starts passing the finger between the flame, until burn out.

The question is that: God punished the boy because he put his finger on fire?
Do not seem to be the reason…

The encounter of a carbon structure, full of nerve endings, called finger” with the elemental energy of the universe, called “Fire“, with high calorific power, results in a degradation to the carbon structure, with repercussion on the nervous system.
It is the nature at work. Are the laws governing life and the universe.
It is not God’s punishment, if you burned your finger.

2.d Part: 44 min.


 

Thanks for reading and have a week with a lot of peace and good energy into your life. 

Cheers, miss Froggy

 

 

 

Life is Beautiful

Even in the face of all the difficulties, life is worth being lived. miss Froggy

Spirit: André Luiz   Medium: Francisco Xavier

Source: http://www.mensagemespirita.com.br/

When you observe on the edge of discouragement, accelerate the footsteps forward, forbidding yourself to stop.

Pray, asking God more light to overcome the shadows.

Do something good, beyond fatigue in which you find yourself.

Read an uplifting page that helps you reasoning in constructive change of ideas.

Try to contact people whose conversation improve your spiritual atmosphere.

Look for an environment where it is possible to hear words and instructions that ennoble  your thoughts.

Do someone a favor, especially one for which you are putting off.

Visit a sick person, seeking comfort those going through more difficulties than yours.

Meets the immediate tasks that await you and preventing you any delay in dismay clouds.

Save the conviction that we are all moving forward through problems and struggles, the acquisition of experience, and that life agrees with the remake breaks our strength, but does not accord with the inertia at any time.

Reflecting in charity of peace and joy, for others, which will capitalize you, increasingly, your own happiness, surely you never lose patience and will know to bring the heart and on the lips the good word and fraternal smile by unceasing blessings of God.

The value of life – Part I

The value of life in a world where suicide is case of public health by André Trigueiro

Why it is part of life suffering, the experience of pain? Because it helps us to build spiritual musculature. Pain is obligatory. Suffering is an option

7th Spiritualist Congress of Rio Grande do Sul – Theme: The Gospel in the world and in hearts

Lecturer: André Trigueiro, Journalist, editor in chief of Cities and Solutions, Expert in environment and author of several books

Website: www.mundosustentavel.com.br

Youtube: https ://youtu.be/czhbABpmekE

Published: 06/11/2013

André Trigueiro: Good evening. What cold spring. But this issue we will address tomorrow.
I do not know what you guys have earned at this time, after work, attend a lecture about suicide.
However, when the Espiritism speaks of suicide, he’s talking about life. And life in abundance.
The meaning of life and the absurdity of aborting a project realized with so much love and so much affection before our incarnation.
In truth, we must say at the start of this conversation that will be brief, the issue that brings us here today is a taboo. Tabu is what we prefer not to talk about, for cultural reasons, social reasons, mystical or religious reasons, or even Superstitious

Taboo is a forbidden subject. And suicide is a missing subject of society. And this is not good news.We explain why.

I will share some numbers from WHO, that lend, in my view, legitimacy and urgency to this topic between us.
It is estimated that each year, a number between 900,000 and 1 million people kill themselve worldwide. 3,000 cases accomplished by day 1 every 30 seconds. In Brazil are 26 deaths officially registered. We not appear in the rank of countries where this problem is more serious. However we are in the rank of nr. 76.

The number of people who commit suicide in the world today already exceeds that officially already registered of death by homicide or armed conflicts.

An estimated group between 10 and 20 attempt to kill himself without success. An attempt every 3 seconds.
It was recorded in the last five decades an increase of 60% in cases of suicides, especially in developing countries as Chine, India and Brazil
Although the polls show that the self-extermination happens in most old age, registers with concern the increasing case among the younger population. In Brazil, for example, the peak incidence reaches the age of 21.
For each case of suicide consummated, an estimated group of five to six people, next to the suicide, experience a searing pain, which is not rare, becomes trauma.
Are people who can no longer work with the same productivity index and need medical license, or therapeutic support to regain courage to live and move on without the company of the departed.
So if we have approximately one million cases reported annually, we have a large number of people suffering a lot, because of a very difficult trauma and as a rule, can only be achieved out of this psychological state with psychological help
Finally, the expectation of WHO is that the number of suicide in the world bend till the year 2030.
Suicide is an invisible issue, not covered by the medias and we, therefore, without information, not consider this a problem or mobilize efforts or devotes time and energy to solve.
However it is curious In the area of public health suicide demand information and prevention. So here I am today. I’m a journalist, in my work middle, but it’s not easy to break this taboo and this stigma, and there is still much work to be done in order to break this wall.
When people ask: Why this subject is invisible?
The first answer is: Depending on who one speaks of suicide, this may sound like a suggestion for those who are living a difficult, emotional time or existentially

The first evidence of this occurred in the eighteenth century, due to the first work of success, from a German novelist Goethe “the Sufferings of young werther”, year 1774. A novel in which the main character, disillusioned lovingly at the end of the story decides to kill himself.
And? So at the end of a particular period, after the disclosure of this work which was very successful in Europe. At same time, it was found that many young people at the height of romanticism, disillusioned lovingly chose the same method described by Goethe. Therefore, it is the phenomenon of mimicry

Who was experiencing an emotionally vulnerable situation, can be inspired by books, theater plays, movies or the way the press reports of suicid cases, to repeat the gesture
When marilyn monroe passed away in the US at that time was attributed to ingestion of barbicuris, it seemed intentionally, by mimetic effect, there have been similar cases
When the leader of the band Nirvana precipitated his return to spiritual homeland by suicide doors, verified, as result of imitation, young people, especially in USA, who repeated this process.

Moral of the story: There have to be careful on talking about the subject.

What does say the WHO about the correct way to talk about suicide?
The correct way is to remember that suicide, in 90% of the cases, is preventable

I’ll repeat: According to WHO, in 90% of cases suicide is related to psycho-pathologies, which are diagnosable and treatable .

So, there is not a fatality when someone mentions: I’ll kill myself” or when someone thinks the exit to the problems, is to kill and not there to do, there is no way out, it is a determinism, because the person has already reincarnated, thinking about it .

!!! in 90% of cases, there is what to do !!! In my hands is a report of a study by the health ministry, showing why, in 10 cases of suicide, 9 are avoidable:

The survey involved 15,629 obito certificates. So, they tracked the historical cases of consummated:

Then it was verified the predominance:

  • in 35% of cases the patient suffered of humor disorder and  depression: Those are sickness able to be diagnosed and treated.
  • Disorder related to use of toxic substances, drugs, alcohol was the second most important indicator.
  • Schizophrenia, personality disorder, psychotic disorders, anxiety disorders.                    In 90% of cases there is something to do to prevent. We must act!

How is the prevention of diseases such as leprosy, dengue, diarrhea, AIDS, sexual transmissible diseasesThrough information.

In relation to suicide, my friends, the same! But there is no prevention without information. And where there is taboo, there is no room for prevention. 

We need to act in contrary direction of self-extermination! It is not enough to whine. It is not sufficient to pray. We need to act!

I mentioned here some mental disorders order.
Those who study today‘s area, the professional of this area is called suicidologo (investigation clinical psychiatrist). I am not a professional in the area but I have found that psychiatrists who undertake work in the line of investigation and research to try to explain these numbers: Why are so many people killing each other?

This professional investigates why so many people are jumping ship. The little that these professionals have found today is that there is no  determining cause for the suicide happen.
Let’s take an example: “A person, disillusioned lovingly read Goethe’s work, finds out that was betrayed and decides to kill herself.
My friends, let’s put here the statistical absurd it would be, if every  betrayed person, decide to kill herself

From an epidemiological point of view, it is not credible. Let´s put it in another way.

Now, if a person who finds himself betrayed, and this is the logic of suicidpsychologist, not had in childhood the period lap, attention, affection, affection, intimacy with parents or responsible. father and mother are working outside and has no time for children. It is understood…

But time is measured not by the clock. You can only have 10 or 15 minutes a day. But is not that moment when you see a movie, along with your children I speak. Are 10-15 minutes that, the son or daughter realize it belong them. Completely for the child: The heat in the lap, eye to eye, attention. The name of this is emotional nourishment.

What age which has more hunger for affection and love?  0-7 years of age.
Who grows in the domestic environment, surrounded by love and affection, builds a network of protection, which is not 100% effective, but it makes the difference for the rest of life, especially at times when we are needy, insecure, sad, depressed
I have stock of love inside me. I was careful with love, care and affection. And it follows me.

It makes the difference. He who killed himself because he was betrayed, owned any belief in a higher force?
You might call God or whatever name
He owned or not? No. He didn´t have Faith in some higher thing is a vulnerability factor, associated with others who can put that fragile person, in a risk group.

There are other associated factors, but I will not dwell on them. We live in a sexist country (Brazil), in the era of patriarchal society that does not tolerate homosexuality. Homo-affective relations are with prejudice target, at home, at school, at university, at work, on the street …. A person who does not feel part of society feels excluded. And she, depending on a number of factors may be part of risk group. I do not want to live in this world. This world is hostile to me. I‘m not accept even indoors. I am stigmatized for being what I am ” It is a risk factor.

Some research indicates that in Rio Grande do Sul, small farmers who handle pesticides of inadequate way, suffer the side effects of the toxins, which affect the nervous system, determining state of deep depression. Inadequate manipulation of chemical products is a risk factor, with serious side effects..

Indigenous communities, as we have in Brazil, new generations of Indians who are not recognized as Indians by the elders of the communities and by the white man, either. He do not know which tribe he belongs, which society he is taking part of. He does not feel welcomed anywhere. He belongs to a risk factor and this is serious.

Depression: Major risk factor for suicide. It is estimated that a group of 8 to 12% of the population are suffering from mood disorders.

In Brazil are about 20 Millions. worldwide are 700 Millions of depressive.

Important not to confuse depression with depressive state. Depressive state is part of life. Who does not experience sadness or depressive states, is not in full condition of health. Because, being incarnated on the planet Earth means be navigating on a roller coaster, in which there are moments of deep peace, joy, well-being Are those days, when we say like this: “Today I die happy“, while, there are also other times when even being spiritualist, believing in God, praying for spiritual guidance, nothing is going right. We feel alone, fragile and vulnerable.

Why it is part of life suffering, the experience of pain? Because it helps us to build spiritual musculature

As Carlos de Andrade says: Pain is obligatory. Suffering is an option

 

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Thanks for reading and a happy weekend!

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